I enthusiastically agreed to go with my husband to an a capella gospel concert at the church he attended as a child. I love a capella, I love gospel. It's gonna be great!
Then, as I looked at the Facebook event page, I thought, "I wonder if I'll be the only white person there..." Then I realized that the converse is my husband's situation at least 80% of his life, if not more. And I kept my mouth shut.